Something brilliant !!

I got this email from a website that I subscribed few years ago..
masa tu busan2, and rajin nk cari tips in relationship ni :D

Just wanna share:

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Do you consistently choose the "wrong" partners? If so, it's time to break the pattern. Life is too short to spend it waiting for an unavailable person to change.

Dear xxxx,

Last week, I got a call from a distraught woman named Michelle. Early 40's, attractive, intelligent, funny - and utterly demoralized by this guy that she'd been seeing. They had a passionate first month, and then, after one awkward conversation, he pulled away. But not fully. He would still send her regular texts saying that he missed her - although he didn't actually DO anything to make plans with her.

Having read my advice before, Michelle set up a coaching call to find out how she could get this guy back.

Since Michelle knew a lot about nutrition, I decided to communicate with her in metaphors she'd easily understand. I told her that the super-attractive guys with whom she felt the most chemistry were like fried foods - they may taste really good, but, in the long run, they're really bad for you.

Her immediate reaction was to protest, "But nice guys are so boring!"

"So are vegetables," I said. "but if you want to live a long, healthy life, you can't do better than eating healthy. If you think that you're going to be the one person who doesn't get heart disease on a steady diet of bad food, you've got another thing coming."

She laughed. "But I LIKE bad food."

"EVERYBODY likes bad food," I reminded her. "But if you want to know the main reason that you're single, it's because you keep on eating steak every night and are continually shocked that you don't lose weight. Steak is always gonna be bad for you. Hot, emotionally unavailable guys will, too."

That conversation was four days ago.

Here's what Michelle wrote to me this morning:

Hello Evan;

I cannot begin to tell you what a difference our conversation has made in my life. I am so extremely grateful to you. I walked into two of my clients houses yesterday and they said, "What's his name?" Because they said I was glowing and luminous. They've only seen me look like that before when I was infatuated with a new man. But I now feel this way because a huge weight has been lifted and I have a new path and outlook for my future. Do you have any idea how HUGE that is? I hope I just gave you the compliment of the year because that is BIG stuff; to make that kind of a difference with one phone conversation. And I'm a tough sell... so take the compliment :)

I've already made changes and "cleaned house". There's a couple guys that still text me that before talking to you, I would occasionally go out with, simply because they're hot and funny, but they have big problems I overlooked before. I'm no longer going to date them.

I have several men that I didn't give a chance to, simply because I didn't think they were sexy enough. I'm reconnecting with them. Last night I started talking to a guy who seems GREAT and is handsome, funny and seems really sincere. Prior to talking to you, I wouldn't have gone out with him simply because he is 5′ 8″. I now think that's silly and I'm definitely going to go on a date with him.

I just can't even tell you. I'm a new person. You got through like know one else has ever been able to. I'm sure I'll need another session soon, just to make sure I get on the right track with the next guy I date... but you showed me that my only problem has been chasing "lust", not life partners.

xoxo

Michelle

This email literally brought tears to my eyes. Such a radical change - in just one phone call!

I feel very fortunate to have the opportunity to produce breakthrough results for special women and men who want more power and control over their love lives.

So if you're confused about the current state of your relationship... if you wonder whether you're investing time in the right partner or wasting time with the wrong one...if you are concerned that time is passing and you're no closer to happiness than you were a year ago, don't hesitate.

Source: http://www.evanmarckatz.com/dating-coaching/

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Yup, love/relationship pun ada coach nya :D hehe

Sometimes site ni mmg bagi tips2 yg menarik, especially on tips how to find your true love, what to do when you want to get the man's attention, what to do when you are on a date etc
Yg sesuai, boleh la follow. Yg over2 tu, sila simpan sendiri ok :p

Komen:

1) super-attractive guys with whom she felt the most chemistry were like fried foods - they may taste really good, but, in the long run, they're really bad for you.

Komen : Hehe most of the times, this is sooo true. Attractive guys selalunya tahu yg dia adalah hensem/ramai peminat/menjadi perhatian di mana2, maka mereka selalunya tidak begitu menghargai
perempuan2 di sisi. Slalunya, perempuan yg tergila2/buat mcm2 utk lelaki type2 cmni. Lelaki cmni xyah banyak usaha sgt, perempuan mmg dtg sendiri. Tp part yg susah, bile dh ade serious relationship. Kalo la perempuan tu xbape lawa sgt, mmg tahap kejelesan xdpt dikawal la. Akan selalu rase insecure. Walaupun cmtu, xsemua laki ensem cmni. Ada yg bertuah, dpt la laki ensem yg baik. Bertuah la kamu ye.

2) if you want to live a long, healthy life, you can't do better than eating healthy. If you think that you're going to be the one person who doesn't get heart disease on a steady diet of bad food, you've got another thing coming

Komen: Ada betulnya juga :p . Yup, nice guys memang boring. Sbb baik sgt, terlalu ikut kata, buat semuanya utk kita happy. Tp kalau la kita selalu sgt amik fast food (metaphor dlm email ni), eventually it will hurt us, in the long run.

3) "EVERYBODY likes bad food," "But if you want to know the main reason that you're single, it's because you keep on eating steak every night and are continually shocked that you don't lose weight. Steak is always gonna be bad for you. Hot, emotionally unavailable guys will, too."

Komen: Yes, so true. Girls are easily attracted to bad boys. Bad boys ni selalunya macho2, ada style yg menyebabkan perempuan suka :p. Naughty, berani. Flirty. Sapa yg tak tertarik kan. Tp, kalau kita tertarik pada org yg salah, mmg memakan diri. Asik kita yg terkejar2..ape ke halnye kan?

Aku suka tindakan yg Michelle buat. Memberi peluang pada lelaki2 yg berminat. Ambil masa kenali mereka, sbb selalunya, pandangan pertama ni xleh pakai sgt. Mmg luaran nampak laki tu xensem, unattractive, tp bila dh kenal, dia ni kelakar, caring etc. So better bg peluang dulu, keluar makan2, borak2..mana tau lama2 sangkut kan :p

Aku bisa membuatmu jatuh cinta kepadaku
Meski kau tak cinta... kepadaku
Beri sedikit waktu...
Biar cinta datang karena telah terbiasa
~Risalah Hati-Dewa 19

Love is a mysterious thing. Sometimes love comes softly :)

Beauty is Pain

The pain passes, but the beauty remains
~Pierre-Auguste Renoir

Last Saturday, I finally admit that beauty is pain.. haha
Berjalan2 di Mid Valley, dan terasa mau bergaya cantik, maka aku pun memakai kasut tumit setinggi 4 inci..dan hasilnya..

xsampai 2 jam..kaki aku dh sakit.
Tahniah kepada kaki dan kasut baru aku tu.
Nampaknya kasut tu cuma akan aku pakai sekali sekala sajalah.
Kasihan kamu kasut. Tapi aku kasihan lagi pada kaki aku :p

Walaupun pabila memakai kasut setinggi itu, membuatkan aku nampak tinggi, kaki panjang ala2 model, tp akibatnya (selepas pakai selama 4 jam) ..

- tapak kaki sgt sakit
- bila bangun pagi.. sakit pinggang plak

tahniah..tahniah sekali lagi kepada aku yg mahu kelihatan cantik :p

Tp bila aku pk2 balik..banyak lg mende2 lain yg org buat, utk cantik.
Nak tau?

Contohnya:
1) wax
xkira la.bikini wax ke, brazilian wax ke, tp ttp sakit.
Model2 msti dh lali sume mende ni. nak kulit badan selicin mungkin..maka perlu la bertahan dgn kesakitan yg dialami ye? :)

2) facial treatment
bg perempuan yg sgt menjaga kecantikan muka, mestilah dorang ada mencuba/register pakej2 utk wat facial. Sekali sebulan contohnya.
Igt wat facial xsakit ke? Aku siap mengalir2 air mata tau masa org tu wat extraction!
Pas abis facial, muka bengkak skit, merah2..haha
What to do, nak muka cantik, tahan jela ye? :p

3) pakaian pembentukan badan
Ini pun satu lagi kegemaran perempuan :p
Kalo nak pakai kebaya, kalo pakai girdle, bengkung..mmg mantap ah badan. haha inilah rahsia wanita. Disebabkan baju2 sebegini ada pelbagai jenis, sila pilih yang ada infra red ok. Premium Beautiful contohnya, walaupun mahal, tp berkesan.Cuma kena rajin la. kalo pakai seminggu sekali, xde kesan la beb. Sendiri mau pk ok

4) Pembedahan kosmetik
E.g:Liposuction
Aku xtau la ni sakit ke x..tp aku mengandaikan ia adalah sakit.
Tgk Nip/Tuck, siap ada org mati lg. Sungguh mengerikan
Pembedahan kosmetik yg lain, for sure sakit. Bayangkan breast kene bedah. Azab yg amat.
Aku dulu kene bedah sbb nk buang lump di breast pun, dh terseksa (scar smpai skang xbley ilang..huhu). Sila la jgn buat ni semua ok.
Ambil cth 'The Biggest Loser' .. 327 pounds pun bole turun 129 pounds, maka jadikanlah itu sebagai pembakar semangat ok. Bersukurlah dgn apa yg ada.. xya besarkan, kecilkan, mancungkan, tegangkan. Terimalah seadanya. Maintainlah ia dgn cara yg betul (exercise, healthy diet, detox)

5) Diet
Mmg la kan, bile berat dah naik, kita ni pun risau, mula la diet berbagai cara.
Xmakan nasi la, amik buah n sayuran.
Aku penah try ni sume, tp ended up aku jadi emosi (sbb lapa kot)
Beauty is pain. Sampai sanggup xmakan. Sunggguh menakutkan.
Berpada2 la ok kawan2. Exercise is still the better way to lose weight + control diet :)

Wat masa ni..tu jela yg aku dpt fikirkan. Beauty is pain, I know.
Selagi masih muda ni, marilah kita menjaga kecantikan kita dgn cara yg betul

good skincare+exercise regularly+detox+eat healthily

Daa

Yang benar,
Aku yg masih mencuba menjaga kecantikan dgn cara yg betul :)

Bukan kesempatan yang terlewat

Aku ni sepatutnya menjadi seorang yang casual romantic (menurut facebook la)
patutnya xlayan sgt romantik2 ni,
patutnya kadar sensitiviti adalah rendah

tapi..
tapi..

aku sgt tersentuh, mmg mudah tersentuh..
bila aku lihat cerita/video klip seperti ini






bukan kesempatan yang terlewat..

aku suka tgk movie pasal hal2 mcm ni,
contohnya the lake house, with love (japan), dan ade la beberapa movie korea yang aku minat

tentang kebetulan dan juga kesempatan

tentang takdir yang menemukan dua insan, dalam situasi yg sangat tak logik,
tp itulah takdir mereka sebenarnya

aku sebenarnya dlm diam, sgt percaya, yang cinta tu, akan dtg sendiri.
it has it's own way, to reach to you

mmg ramai yang kata,
"ko xboleh diam je, ko kene usaha"
mmg, xde mende yang senang dlm dunia ni
sumer mende kene usaha,
tp, being "casual romantic" la kunun,
kan bagus kalau sumer tu terjadi dgn sendirinya,
dlm keadaan yang aku pun xsangka ia patut terjadi

dan kesempatan selalunya tak dtg dua kali,
ni mmg betul
bukan hanya utk cinta, tp utk semua aspek kehidupan

Kalau saja aku masih punya kesempatan yang sama

Atau semua yang pernah terjadi bisa terulang lagi

Tapi ternyata kesempatan yang ada hanya sekali

Sampai kini masih kutunggu datangnya keajaiban

Yang mungkin saja bisa memberiku waktu satu kali lagi

Seandainya masih bisa kudapatkan sekali lagi, satu kali lagi

Masih tertunda dan belum semua kukatakan

Biar kutunggu sampai kau kembali lagi disini

Harus kau dengar, semuanya harus kau dengarkan

Isi hatiku, tentang hatiku yang perlu kusampaikan

Ternyata tak semudah itu keinginan bisa terjadi

Tapi ku berharap semoga masih ada kesempatan

Sekali lagi… [Sekali Lagi by Ipang]

Indah kan..

harap keindahan ni akan berlaku pada aku :)

Aminn

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7 Simple Stress Busters

An article that I think can benefits all of us :)


Stress happens. No matter how organized you are, how good your systems are, or how friendly your work and living environments are, stress can find a way to poke its ugly head in from time to time. What can you do? Turn to a convenient Stress Buster – a small, simple activity that clears your head and calms you down. When you feel a stress attack coming on, it’s the perfect time to turn to one of these busters and kick that stress out the door.

Here are 7 of our favorite Stress Busters, but feel free to develop your own:

1. Take a walk
Want a break from the office? Does your house feel like an insane asylum? Slip out the door and let your feet take you somewhere. Not only will walking give you the opportunity to clear your head and take a break from that hectic situation, but it’s great aerobic exercise, too.

2. Call a friend
We all have someone whose voice alone perks us up. Give them a buzz, even for a few minutes. Whether with a joke or a funny story, or just by listening, they will likely put a smile on your face and calm you down. Besides, what are friends for?

3. Write in a journal
Expressing our feelings could be the best way to deal with stress. Keeping a journal is a way to capture those feelings at any moment. You don’t have to worry about what others think or say, just let your pen do the work. By the time you’re done, those feelings will be on their way out of your system.

4. Play a board game
Remember these? Maybe there are a dozen stashed in your closet, waiting to be dusted off. Monopoly probably should be saved until you have a few hours to spare, but quick kids’ games like Candy Land, Chutes & Ladders, Connect Four, or even Twister are always good for a smile.

5. Work up a sweat
Have some pent up frustrations? There’s no better way to get rid of them than by exercising. Pop in a workout tape, hop on your bike or grab your jump rope. You’ll be too busy working up a sweat to worry about what’s stressing you out. Picture the stress leaving your body through your pores.

6. Plan something fun
Is there a trip you want to take but never had time to get it together? Or a dinner you’ve always wanted to make? Now’s the time. Not only will you take your mind off things, but you’ll be spending time eagerly anticipating a great getaway or meal later. It’s a win-win situation.

7. Take a hot bath
A hot bath will initially give your body a kick, which in turn will give your mind a kick too – and then it’ll slow both down. Add bubbles and a few candles and you have the ultimate soothing atmosphere. A rubber ducky is optional.

Taken from : here

Kisah Kad Kredit, Duit dan Excel Sheet

Semenjak aku tahu bagaimana untuk menggunakan kad kredit, aku akui, aku mmg tak dapat control spending. Grr sgt frustrating bila setiap bulan, duit habis macam tu je :(

I know I am not a very well organized person especially with money, but every month, I'm trying very hard. VERRY HARD.

Ada satu kisah sedih, yang melibatkan wang gaji aku..

Tadi aku wat bajet utk bulan ni (7hb baru nk wat bajet bulanan?? for sure la duit gaji tu dh kena spend skit kan. *bengong*). Dan kebetulan pulak bulan ni kami pekerja2 dpt bonus. Just a few hundred ringgit (kita patut bersyukur ada gak bonus biarpun sedikit). Bagi kawan2 ofis aku, semua dh pk macam2, ape nk beli ngan duit bonus tu (aku pun xterkecuali la, sbb ada gak items dlm wishlist aku yg aku wish nk beli).

Nak dijadikan cerita, last Friday, masa makan tengahari d sebuah cafe di Cyberjaya, kitorang pun berbual pasal hal2 bajet bulanan. Ade kakak ni, ade excell sheet utk kira bajet (which I dont have, sbb aku kira bajet dlm buku nota je..sungguh ketinggalan). Dan aku pun gatal mulut, minta akak tu forwardkan pada aku.

Hari Sabtu, baru la aku dpt mood nak wat kira2 bajet ni. Kira punya kira..

guess what??

Bajet aku jadi -ve. Negative. NEGATIVE..
waaaaaaaaaaa

sume nye sbb aku overspent credit card bulan lepas.

Aku selalu anggap yang aku mampu untuk membeli sesuatu (yg mahal la) as a gift atas penat lelah usaha aku bekerja bulan tu. Tapi sebenarnya, aku xmampu (xmampu dari segi kurang pandai organize duit sendiri). Jadi, selalunya, aku overspend. Grr sgt sakit hati

Walaupun baru 7hb, dan masih ada banyak hari lagi dlm bulan Mac ni utk aku hadapi, dan kemungkinan gaji lambat masuk lagi hujung bulan ni, aku terpaksa la berjimat cermat.
Maybe cut back on food and not necessary things yang selalu aku terbeli mase berhibur di hujung minggu.

Maybe hujung minggu juga xperlu keluar/or sekali sekala je ? Arghhh

Sebenarnya aku xlarat nk menghadapi sindrom hujung bulan. Tiap2 bulan tunggu bila nk dpt gaji, dan bulan seterusnya, aku tunggu lagi, utk gaji seterusnya.

Dan tanpa sedar, masa terus berjalan. Dan aku masih begini..huwaaa

I'm praying hard, agar aku overspend lagi next month. You can do it anne, you can do it (repeat 10x)

To love me is to know me :)

Tagged by Babe, but this is just another excuse to update my blog.
Well, I dunno what should I update on this blog, but I guess, I need to be more creative :)

The RULES:
Bold the statements that are true to you. Italic the statements that you WISH are true. Leave the Fibs alone. Then, stab 5 ladies to do the same test.

The LIST to Bold/Italic/Just-let-it-be:

I miss somebody right now.
I don’t watch TV these days.
I own lots of magazines.
I wear glasses or contact lenses.
I love to play video games.
I’ve tried marijuana.
I have been in a threesome.
I have been the psycho-ex in a past relationship
I believe honesty is usually the best policy.
I curse sometimes.
I have changed a lot mentally over the last year.
I carry my knife/razor everywhere with me.
I’m totally smart.
I’ve broken someone’s bones.
I’m paranoid sometimes.
I would get plastic surgery if it were 100% safe, free of cost, and scar-free.
I need money right now.
I love sushi.
I talk really, really fast.
I have long hair.
I have lost money in Las Vegas.
I have at least one sibling.
I have worn fake hair/fingernails/eyelashes in the past.
I couldn’t survive without Caller I.D
I like the way I look.
I am usually pessimistic
I have a lot of mood swings.
I have a hidden talent.
I’m always hyper no matter how much sugar i have.
I have a lot of friends.
I am currently single
I have pecked someone of the same sex.
I enjoy talking on the phone.
I practically live in sweatpants or PJ pants.
I love to shop.
I enjoy window shopping.
I would rather shop then eat.
I don’t hate anyone. I dislike them.
I’m completely embarrassed to be seen with my mother.
I have a cell phone.
I believe in God.
I watch MTV on a daily basis.
I have passed out drunk in the past 6 months.
I’ve rejected someone before.
I have no idea what i want to do for the rest of my life.
I want to have children in the future
I have changed a diaper before.
I’ve called the cops on a friend before.
I’m not allergic to anything.
I have a lot to learn.
I have been with someone at least 10 years older or younger.
I am shy around the opposite sex.
I have tried alcohol before.
I have made a move on a friend’s significant other or crush in the past.
I own the “South Park” movie.
I would die for my best friends.
I think that Pizza Hut has the best pizza.
I have used my sexuality to advance my career.
I love Michael Jackson, scandals and all.
Halloween is awesome because you get free candy.
I watch Spongebob Squarepants and i like it.
I have dated a close friends’s ex.
I am happy at this moment!!
I’m obsessed with guys (on TV).
I study for tests most of the time.
I tie my shoelaces differently from anyone I’ve ever met.
I can work on a car.
I love my job (used to like my job..long time ago..huhu)
I am comfortable with who I am right now.
I have more than just my ears pierced.
I walk barefoot wherever i can.
I have jumped off a bridge.
I love sea turtles.
I spend ridiculous money on makeup.
I plan on achieving a major goal/dream.
I’m proficient in a musical instrument.
I worked at McDonald’s restaurant.
I hate office jobs.
I love sci-fi movies.
I think water rules.
I went college out of state.
I like sausage.
I love kisses.
I fall for the worst people.
I adore bright colours.
I can’t live without black eyeliner.
I don’t know why the hell i just did this stupid thing.
I usually like covers better than originals.
I can pick up things with my toes.
I can’t whistle.
I can move my tongue in waves, much like a snakes slither.
I have ridden/owned a horse.
I still have every journal I’ve ever written in.
I can’t stick to a diet.
I talk in my sleep.
I try to forget things by drowning them out with loads of distractions
Climbing trees is a brilliant past-time.
I have jazz in my blood.
I wear a toe ring.
I have a tattoo.
I can’t stand at LEAST one person that i work with.
I am a caffeine junkie.
I have been to over 15 conventions.
I will collect anything, and the more nonsensical, the better.
I’m an artist.
I only clean my room when necessary.
I like a person of the same sex.
I love being happy.
I am an adrenaline junkie.